Top 5 at 5: Weddings - Shared Values or Shared Debt?
Rafiq Hidayat, Managing Director, Wealth Vantage Advisory
23-Oct-25 17:00

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A new study has revealed that nearly half of respondents borrowed money for wedding expenses, with many spending upwards of RM40,000. Financial strain is mounting; some couples allocate up to 20% of their monthly income to wedding-related costs. So what does this mean for a couple's finances heading into marriage? We discuss this with Rafiq Hidayat, Managing Director of Wealth Vantage Advisory.
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Produced by: Sudais Ferhard, Sneha Harikannan, Lim Sue Ann, Sitara Darini, Susan Tam
Presented by: Lee Chwi Lynn, Susan Tam
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Tags: traffic summons, discount, tuberculosis, kelantan, tiktok, violence, security guards, wedding planning, wedding expenses, debt,